Wedding Day Timeline & Checklist


8 - 12 months before your Wedding day


  • Agree with your spouse-to-be and your family on your Wedding date

  • Decide on a Preliminary Wedding Budget

  • Hire a wedding planner/coordinator, if you choose to

  • Prepare a guest list

  • Agree to meet with your Officiant or Clergyman/woman

  • Agree on the Ceremony location and time

  • Agree on the Rehearsal & Reception Site

  • Shop for a Professional Videographer & Photographer

  • Shop for a Florist and Entertainment (Band, DJ, etc.)

  • Look for a Wedding gown - allow time for alterations and fittings

  • Agree on a bridal registry

  • Select the bridesmaids

  • Agree on a date to order bridesmaids' dresses

  • Shop and buy engagement rings

  • Choose a beautiful place for your Honeymoon

  • Apply for passports, if needed


6 months before your Wedding day


  • Make airline & hotel reservations for the Honeymoon

  • Fine tune the guest list

  • Shop for and order invitations, calligraphy, announcements & Thank You notes

  • Shop for and order wedding favors

  • Draw a time line for the Wedding Reception

  • Agree on a florist

  • Call the Photographer to set up a time for the bridal portrait

  • Book a Limousine Company for transportation on your wedding day

  • Share and discuss the reception timeline all parties involved

  • If you will be renting anything for your wedding day, such as a tent or chairs, shop for a vendor and make reservations


2 to 4 months before the wedding


  • Make reservation for the rehearsal dinner. The Highlander is an excellent choice. Also, be sure to schedule the rehearsal at the ceremony location

  • Book accommodations for out-of-town guests (You may want to gather ideas for their entertainment prior to the wedding while they stay)

  • Book beauty appointments for the Bride (as well as any members of the bridal party). Discuss with the hairstylist your hair style for your wedding day

  • Choose champagne and wines for the reception.

  • Address invitations

  • Buy your wedding rings

  • Make an appointment for a physical exam - if needed

  • Arrange wedding day transportation for the entire party as well as the bride and groom

  • Order the wedding cake

  • Start looking for a new home (if applicable)


8 weeks before your Wedding day


  • Discuss with the Officiant the specifics of the Wedding Ceremony

  • Finalize the guest list

  • Choose gifts for the groom and the attendants

  • Make final alterations and arrange for a final fitting for the Wedding Gown

  • Visit your Photographer for the Bridal Portrait

  • Mail invitations


1 month before your Wedding day


  • Fill out and submit application for the marriage license

  • Contact out of town guests and make necessary hotel reservations

  • Finalize music list and no-play list with band or DJ

  • Make reservations for bridesmaids' luncheon

  • Attend showers


2 weeks before your Wedding day


  • Verify the bridal party clothing

  • Send a wedding announcement to the local newspapers, if you wish

  • Make necessary arrangements for name & address change, if any

  • Confirm final details with the reception site


1 week before your Wedding day


  • Send reminders to the rehearsal dinner attendees about the location.& time

  • Call the guests who have not responded

  • Start packing for your Honeymoon

  • Discuss final details of the ceremony and reception with the pertinent parties

  • Get final guest counts to the cake vendor, party rental company and/or reception site coordinator

  • Steam or Press the Wedding gown


The day before your Wedding day


  • Visit your Beauty Salon for  manicure and pedicure

  • Attend the rehearsal and dinner

  • Make sure the ushers have the final guest list


Your Wedding Day


  • Eat in the morning - it may be a while before you get another chance to

  • Have the bride's hair and makeup done three hours before the ceremony. If this will be done at the salon, bring the veil and headpiece.

  • Dress at least one hour before the ceremony

  • Bring a change of clothes if you are leaving for your honeymoon

  • Give the best man the bride's wedding ring

  • Put officiant's fee in an envelope and give it to the best man to deliver after the ceremony

  • Bring the marriage license

  • Seat the groom's parents five minutes before the ceremony.

  • Seat the bride's mother immediately before the processional march

  • Try to relax... unwind... and savor the unfolding of your Special day


Congratulations!...

Our best wishes for a married
life filled with
 good health,  happiness, and fortune


Post Wedding & Honeymoon


  • Contact a flower preservation vendor to preserve you Bouquet

  • Contact a gown preservation vendor to hand clean, press and preserve your bridal gown

  • Send out thank you cards to your guest

Call Today and talk to
our Wedding Planners
(603) 622-9026

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